Showing strand of hair when wearing the hijab is disobedience to Allah سبحانه وتعالى and this is a sin that’s normalize. Repent and cover yourself properly with accordance to the Quran n Sunnah.
Fudayl ibn lyad رحمه الله said,
“You must persist in gratitude for blessings for rarely does a blessing that departs from a people return to them."
[Minhaj al Qasidin 1/291]
Do man ever settle for the most loyal woman who isn’t into materialistic things and a woman who cares for them, who cooks for them, who does everything to keep them happy instead of settling down for someone who is only pretty