@thunderxstorm07@allurequinn sad. she went from being a VERY young woman who was sexualized early to then wanting to be taken seriously for more than just her looks and beauty. no wonder the light left her eyes.
i may not be the prettiest person but i just got into nursing school while being on the dean’s list and no one, NO ONE, can take that away or my intelligence away from me
@Tedoffthegrid they crumble when you don’t engage in their toxicity. my ex wanted to scream at me and “show me” just how mad he could be. it was like being in the twilight zone to watch him get more irate because i wouldn’t stoop to his level. living unbothered is the the ultimate revenge
@phoenixashes199 @Yesimteamedward regardless of how my comment was interpreted, i wish them peace in this situation. none of it came from a malicious intent on my end, just human curiosity and concern for the poster. no one deserves to be harassed by their own parents, no contact or not.
@phoenixashes199 @Yesimteamedward ty for the info. i still stand by what ive said, though. we have different outlooks and that’s fine, they’re both valid. but just in my opinion based on my own experiences, it was always more effort to respond and react to a narcissist than it was to just block them
@phoenixashes199 @Yesimteamedward at the end of the day, it was just a question of “if it’s causing you this much trouble, why stay?” no one deserves to be bullied by their parents and not all parents deserve to have their adult children stay in their lives either. people deserve peace in their lives.
@phoenixashes199 @Yesimteamedward read: not engaging in their messiness. you don’t have to be no contact to not be involved in their narcissistic attempts to rattle you. like idk…it’s a lot more trouble than it’s worth for people to track down my shitty family on facebook to harass them.
@Yesimteamedward lol i’m blocked now so she won’t even see this. but i’m just gonna say: i’ve been where you are with shitty family members and not engaging with their drama allowed the most peace to enter into my life. i truly just wish the same for you. it was a genuine question out of concern
@Yesimteamedward idk your story, but if that’s bad why even stay in contact with them at all? like why put yourself through even more grief? bad parents aren’t worth all this stress and mental energy
@BKJBKJ189050 how fortunate of you that you or nobody close to you has had to battle with addictions. stomping on someone else’s happiness that in no way harms anybody is very odd to me and just makes me curious as to what’s happening in your life that makes you altruistic.
@troonytoons we need to really teach people that bleeding with sex when we aren’t menstruating is NOT OKAY. my friend was HEMORRHAGING and asked me if i thought it was normal and i BEGGED her to go to the hospital. we NEED better sexual education that doesn’t have abstinence at the forefront.
@mushr00mbabe it took me an hour to read that entire mess of a thread 😂 like just when i thought it was over, i’d open another “show more replies” and there she was!