You deserve ppl in your life who think you are a big deal. No competition, no backhanded comments, no jealously, no comparison, no hate just simply “I love you and there is nobody like you and there will only ever be 1 of you” type energy
I know it sounds corny, but having REAL girlfriends in my life taught me a lot about how I want to be loved by a s/o. When your homegirls really love you, they romance you in ways that shows you you’re not asking for too much.