B. B. For Men

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[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

I blew years on all this 'traditional' self-help - positive thinking, affirmations, fake it till you make it, Tony Robbins stuff, even therapy

I'd grind like hell, then bam, crash right back down

Anxious as fuck, feeling unloved, unwanted, beating myself up nonstop

Then I had my 'Aha' moment: every one of those 'traditional approaches' is in fact just different strategies to do the very same thing - rewriting your beliefs

And they do it in a very lengthy and clumsy way

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

If you ever feel dumb,

it’s because you just got smarter

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

People will respect you only whe you respect yourself already

Because most people are followers, too lazy and too scared to think for themselves

And so they will simple follow your lead

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If you set no boundaries, you will be used, abused and then thrown away once you have been bled dry.

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

@PUA_DATING_TIPS People will respect you only whe you respect yourself already

Because most people are followers, too lazy and too scared to think for themselves

And so they will simple follow your lead

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

Most people understand that their beliefs are who they are

And that's correct

Most people, however, don't understand that they can form their belief system into whatever shape and form they desire

And thus becoming a better version of themselves

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

When you truly believe in yourself and your own worth, it becomes very easy to say “No” when you feel like saying “No.”

No guilt
No explanations
No need to please people

Just you and what you want

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

A very simple truth:

The more you believe in yourself, the better your life gets

It’s not complicated.
It’s cause and effect

Master your Beliefs

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

When you chase perfection, you inevitably give up on reality

Do you understand?

True perfection in human life is impossible... because life is way too complex, chaotic, and messy

Chasing perfection is just a fancy way of staying stuck

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

@LibertyCappy Trauma fixed... Story not as powerful, though

There's a reason why the horse must die... so you feel like you need to read it again... and it truly can become The Never-ending Story

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

“You can’t know where your limits are if you’ve never tested them”

It’s an overused cliché, but it’s still true

Here’s another cliché/truth:

Most men live such cowardly lives
that they couldn’t see their real limits
even with the Hubble Space Telescope

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@culturehedonist 'Most people live lives full of quiet desperation'

So does she... and she wants to escape it, and wants her man to be the means of that escape

A stable guy living in his head can't do it for her

It not that she loves toxicity... it's that she hates boredom

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When was the last time you solved a real problem by getting emotional about it?

Think about it...

I bet that the only time that ever worked was when you were a kid throwing a tantrum to get ice cream

Yet, most adults still consider that an outstanding strategy

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

You can't judge another person

Because you will never know them well enough for that

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

Feelings are great

You need them to actually enjoy life

But letting your feelings lead your life — as most people do these days — is simply idiotic

You can never build a long-term strategy with 'feelings'

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@DefiantLs They're lonely, miserable souls

And this is one of the very few ways how they can get some attention... or at least the illusion of it

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Your beliefs are the GPS of your life

If it’s set to the wrong destination, you can drive full speed for years, feeling productive, thinking “this time I'm gonna get somewhere nice”

And still end up exactly where you don’t want to be

Master your beliefs

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Your subconscious doesn’t give a fuck about what you “want” or “hope"

It only obeys what you, deep down, believe you deserve

It will move mountains, bend reality, sabotage you, or elevate you...

Whatever it takes to make your beliefs come true

No exceptions

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

@woman_think And if she does, it's only to complain 🤣

[B. B. For Men @bb_for_men]

When you know you don't understand something, that can be rectified easily

When you don't understand that you don't understand something, then you've got a serious problem

When you believe you understand something even though you don't, that's a disaster waiting to happen

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Everybody strives towards having a better life... including women (Yeah, real surprise)

Women know they will have a better life when the man they manage to get is much better than them

If you're the one who's 'lucky' to found her... you're not better than her at all

Simple math

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Knowing something will repeat lessens the enjoyment you get from that experience