@porkypunn for me i think it’s an anxiety thing, i tense up anything i try to use my fingers or even a tampon and it hurts so bad. i’ve just had to make slow progress in learning how to relax my muscles
hi so little who’s carer coaxes them to be small until all the can do is lay peacefully staring at their carer babbling “mamama/dadada” with the biggest smile on their face ok bye!