It’s this same thing you people do where your churches have people obey different rules based on their location on this planet.
Don’t wear trousers in Nigeria, but you can if you are in the US.
Bunch of control freaks…. You people need to change your ways ‘or not.’
I’m actually begging business owners:
You need to ALWAYS make sure you have access to everything that concerns your business.
If someone is buying your domain, have access to it.
If someone is running your ads, have access to the ad account.
If someone is building your website, have access to the bloody thing.
Don’t let someone else be the only person who can access something that your business depends on.
Please. 😭
i genuinely think one of the secrets to staying excited about life is always having something to look forward to.
book the flight. plan the dinner. buy the ticket. schedule the museum date. save the show for friday night. make that meal you’ve been craving.
it doesn’t have to be a big event. anticipation is part of the joy.
why won’t y’all just stop having kids? 😭😭😭😭😭😭 y’all don’t want to talk to them, read with them, listen to them, play with them, or even BATHE them. parenthood is not by force
I remember an uncle telling me I had no value/impact because I decided to prioritize my alone time after a huge family affair over house chores. Mind you this was 2 days after my birthday that I couldn’t celebrate because of said ‘family affair’.
Months later one of them gets a big life update and now they’re screaming the whole roof down that I didn’t show up for them. Meanwhile I’ve been no-contact with both parties. Am I supposed to pretend to give af about you when I don’t?
I can never forget the reaction my big cuz had when the call came in and this uncle was barking orders for me to get home. Eventually got home and there was a whole gang up of 2 grown adults against me. The night was definitely a long one and I got no single apology.
What’s even crazier is all these little girls feel closer to their dads, they describe themselves as their daddy’s fave, meanwhile their dads do everything but speak up against the abuse they face. Both parents are culprits.
As she Dey talk I just Dey think of all the little girls I know that are experiencing this rn. It’s really sad. It’s sad that their moms hate them and they are helpless.