peak female experiences :
1. realizing u can wear whatever you want
2. becoming besties with your sister
3. friendships start turning 10+ years old
4. accepting your body
5. finally understanding your mother
6. de-centering men
7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love
They breadcrumb you because they live on breadcrumbs, they have nothing more to give. You are the giver, you have bread. And because you’re used to having bread.
You expect to receive bread from them too.
The breadcrumbs create a hunger that is never satiated. Cuz you’re used to more.
All the while they’ve been eating off your bread. Now you’re even more empty than before hoping for something tangible.
You’ve become addicted to breadcrumbs.
Now they don’t even need to deceive you anymore. You give it freely.
You’re taken on the new identity of breadcrumb lover.