First morning of 2026 🤍💭
As usual, started new year with bajamaat tahajjud and fajar prayers.
Allah Pak ye saal sub k liye bohot baa barkat karay and sub ki duain qabool fermaye, Ameen
🙏🏻🧡
Anyone who can be unkind to you while fully aware you’re dealing with death, illness, or profound stress isn’t just abusive, they’re showing you exactly how dark their character is.
This is what I've learned and am trying to apply too.
99% of the people doesn't know or practice it.
Rather they will snap back that you are blaming them when you are complaining.
I believe this can be a very good self improving resolution for our new year if we adopt this.
Apologizing when someone you care about tells you what you did hurt them.
—No defense - “but that’s not what I meant”
—No gaslighting - “you’re too sensitive, it’s really not that deep”
—No feeling attacked - “You complain a lot, it’s like I can’t do anything right”
—No “I’m sorry if…”
Just a heartfelt genuine apology, it really doesn’t take anything from you