@_clxtchzillaa__ So by this logic a child, religious beliefs, political beliefs, drinking habits and infertility shouldn’t be considered in a relationship since you can’t know unless told gotcha
@weary_voices@nondum1so To call every person with that preference homophobic you’d have to show that every possible reason is rooted in prejudice not just that some are. Which you havent done btw you’ve just given me one example ☺️
@weary_voices@nondum1so You’ve described ONE motivation. That doesn’t establish that every person who doesn’t date bi men has that motivation. Just like saying “I don’t date Christian men” doesn’t automatically make someone anti-Christian. The preference ALONE to not date doesn’t tell you that.
@weary_voices@nondum1so What are you talking about??? There are lots of things that don’t visibly affect a relationship until someone tells you eg. Children, religion, politics, infertility
@SuprDuprRupert@sttvrx@thekonyjen You have every right to disagree with whether virginity is a good indicator of compatibility but disagreeing with someone’s reasoning doesn’t automatically make the preference prejudiced
@SuprDuprRupert@sttvrx@thekonyjen My point is ppl are allowed to use different factors when deciding compatibility even if those factors aren’t perfect predictors
@SuprDuprRupert@sttvrx@thekonyjen Okay I get that virginity itself doesn’t guarantee any of those traits. My point isn’t that a characteristic automatically proves someone has certain qualities