Adulting is when you enjoy sleeping soundly on a gloomy day, noh? you enjoy going out and eating in restaurants or cafes alone, you enjoy doing self-care, and owning your time. Sometimes, being alone helps you to realize that not every person you love to be around helps you grow.
i'm officially at the age where i don't want to be around people who aren't self-aware. they keep putting themselves in bad positions, making poor life choices, living toxic lifestyles, having no priorities, and lacking accountability.
What Shin Minah said about romantic relationships and friendships is so true
"Deep down, we already know whether someone is meant to be our life partner or not. We just tend to deny it because of our feelings"
"We can sense who truly makes us feel comfortable and at ease. The same goes for friendships. If you feel that a relationship is toxic, you have to set boundaries. It may be better to slowly distance yourself rather than force a relationship that doesn't bring you peace"
#ShinMinAh #ShinMinA
i don't think anyone truly understands how deeply i love my friends. i cherish friendship, i adore whimsy, and i love being understood. like, yes, we are best friends and i love you; your laughter keeps me going, and you occupy a permanent, beautiful space in my heart.