oh and ive always hated the phrase “a man’s got needs” referring to sex, sex is not a biological need and we’ve failed as a society conditioning these men to believe they’ll die if they don’t get it. let’s change it to “got wants.”
Is anyone else ever genuinely shocked when you find out you have an impact on someone's life? A coworker can be like "I've missed seeing you" and I'm just like "???? you?? missed me????? My presence has an effect on your daily experience???? i affect things??? What???"
unpopular opinion: we shouldn’t use volunteers for war, we should draft everyone who has a domestic violence charge since they already proved they like to fight so much.
Perez Hilton doesn’t deserve a single ounce of grace or compassion when he built a career on the backs of women who were experiencing similar crisis and lead the charge on humiliating them over and over for years.