@Laceydeluca88 Sorry to hear that. I agree, you should never have to prove your worth to someone who truly wants to be in a relationship with you. Hopefully you can take care of yourself now and find someone truly worthy of your love and affection.
@Laceydeluca88 Sometimes getting a fresh start is the best thing to do. You can never win with a narcissist. Good for you and your son. Do it now and in the future you won’t look back with regret that you wasted your life on someone who didn’t care.
@Laceydeluca88 I wish that would work in every case. Sometimes only one person truly wants that. It will never happen when the other person doesn’t. Some people, like narcissists, don’t think the same way and actually thrive off the conflict and pain they cause.
@Laceydeluca88 That’s what narcissists do. Make it look as if you want to argue so as to remain in conflict and never take responsibility for their own actions.
@Laceydeluca88 If you are happy when you are away from the person causing you pain then don’t go back to them. If he wanted to change he would have. Don’t put yourself back into that same situation. In my case, going back to her actually made things worse. Hard not to go back though.