@dearra I truly believe all of our steps are ordained before we even take our first breath. It’s so much deeper when you realize your soul chose your body and agreed to all the terms included in the human experience that’s where the quote “what’s for me will never miss me” comes from
Sometimes your partner isn’t asking you to change your identity, they’re asking you to change the behaviors that keep hurting the relationship. You don’t have to become a different person. You just have to be willing to become a better partner. Because love isn’t only about accepting someone as they are; it’s also about caring enough to grow when the way you love is causing pain.
I don’t think people realise how much of your personality can disappear when you don’t feel emotionally safe around someone. I become quieter. More careful with my words. Less playful, less expressive, less willing to let myself be seen. You’ll still know me. You’ll still recognize my face, hear my voice, and know the basic version of who I am. But you won’t know the version of me that comes out when I feel completely safe. The loud, silly, affectionate, unfiltered version that doesn’t have to think twice before being herself. What looks like a change in personality is simply a person becoming smaller because they no longer feel safe enough to be fully themselves.
@KBLINKZ_20 If you’re really interested you’re not keeping track follow your heart but trust your gut and figure out where the resistance/hesitation is coming from
Sex is only fun for me if I can see that you’re crazily attracted to me. Borderline feral and tiptoeing pervert status with your attraction. Otherwise let’s play jenga please.