say to the universe 💫
— “you know what i want. give it to me in the path of least resistance. give it to me the easiest way possible. give it to me in any way i can get it.”
actually your community IS coming to save you, people are going to show up for you, love is going to find you, strangers are going to be like angels, the world conspires for your highest good
According to psychology, being the "good, low maintenance" child isn't a sign of innate maturity. It is a survival strategy known as parentification or fawning. You subconsciously recognized that your caregivers were too emotionally overwhelmed, volatile, or fragile to handle your age appropriate needs. You swallowed your own childhood and became invisible just to keep the peace
Unfortunately, you have to be very careful of people that ruin your special days/moments. Insecure/manipulative/immature/jealous people tend to create drama/stress during your birthdays and important times like exams, interviews, awards, promotions etc Any win for you basically.