Jadi keinget kejadian di kantor lama.
Ada satu temen kantor gw yang udah nikah, orangnya biasa aja, nggak pernah flirting, tiap hari bahkan masih pakai cincin nikah.
Suatu hari lagi jam jam nyantai, ada temen 1 divisi cewek nyeletuk ke temen gw, "Mas, istri lo pasti beruntung ya."
Awalnya gw kira cuma bercanda. Tapi lama-lama ni gw liat liat mereka mulai sering makan berdua, nyari alasan buat lembur bareng, sampe gw pernah denger tu cewe pernah bilang, "Aku nggak masalah kok mas kalau cuma jadi orang ketiga." jir kaget gw dengernya wkwkw๐
Yang bikin gw kaget, tu cewe padahal tau kalau temen kantor gw itu udah nikah. Bahkan sering lihat foto anaknya di meja kerja.
Terus gw iseng nanya kenapa masih nekat, jawabannya cuma, "Justru cowok yang udah nikah biasanya lebih dewasa, lebih stabil, lebih bisa ngurus keluarga."
Waktu itu baru sadar ternyata buat sebagian orang, wedding ring bukan dianggap tanda "jangan diganggu", tapi malah semacam stempel kalau orang itu sudah "terbukti".
Karena gw orangnya males ikut campur yauda gw diem aja, nah kalau kalian diposisi gw waktu itu gimana?
"Sering kali kita percaya bahwa kita tdk layak mendapatkan hal hal baik yg terjadi pada kita. Kita tdk mau menerimanya sebab apabila kita menerimanya, kita merasa seolah olah kita berutang sesuatu kepada Tuhan" -maktub
when times are just a distraction from pain, it'll come back as a bigger fear one day, can destroy it more than before, so is it better to face it now or be distracted until it becomes a big fear?
"women are beautiful just by existing i think there's a beauty to every age that's so clear. you get a rock and then cut it again and again to make it a shiny jewel and i think the process women go through as they age is so beautiful" โ kim goeun
happy international women's day!
when u have the option to choose, to be happy or trapped in the same situation, and u choose to not move, you'll find ur self always in the same situation.
the way sheโs maintained such a strong filmography while taking on projects every year is so impressive. sheโs also explored many genres despite not even being 15 years into the industry. what a great actor who knows how to choose great scripts
i take my hat off to Kim Go-eunโs acting she was beyond phenomenal i was so mesmerized by her performance that i couldnโt even focus on the series.
#ThePriceOfConfession#KimGoEun