A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be mindful of what others have going on and that is a flaw that I need to let go expeditiously!
Becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth & decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you’ll damage your mind, body & spirit
don’t get me wrong i like a drink but i hate the culture in the uk that always seems to revolve around having to get smashed, a few of us went around my pals house last night and everyone made such a big deal over the fact i wasn’t drinking