The older you get, the more you realize you don't wanna be around drama, stress or conflict anymore. You start choosing calm over chaos, and distance over disrespect. You prioritize your peace, mental health and happiness — over everything.
Have y’all realized how many people don’t have conversation etiquette ? like if they’re not talking about themselves they really don’t know how to navigate between an actual conversation between other people
when you cut out people in your life that constantly didn’t make you feel good there’s a moment of like silence in your life and you just think about the person you used to be and get disgusted with yourself for even tolerating so much for so long but then you start feeling peace
PSA If you are a full grown woman and still a "Mean Girl" please seek help. It's weird. It's 2023. We don't sneak diss, bully, or hate on other women. We uplift, encourage, and applaud each other. And if you really don't like someone or something then simply don't inte-
I think I owe myself an apology for being in spaces where I knew l wasn't wanted & appreciated but instead I stayed, for forcing broken connections & ships.I owe myself an apology for putting people who never appreciated me before myself, doubting myself
Having a partner in life should feel like just that. A partner. You both vs. the world, not you vs. them. You should feel emotionally safe, open and comfortable.. that’s how you know they’re worth sharing yourself with. Nothing should be demanded, and nothing should ever feel forced.
Being a calm person who doesn’t snap immediately is annoying because once I do go off everyone looks at me as though I’m insane. Like we really finna act like I wasn’t just provoked.