It breaks my heart to say this, but I no longer care about Nigerian problems.
I only spare a thought for my family, especially the ones that want to leave.
My lifetime is too short to spend on problems that outlived my parents and will outlive me.
There’s a serious rent problem going on in Nigeria currently. Landlords are outrageously increasing rent, they are not even following the due process, they just wake up and serve you papers.
They are also not being considerate at all regarding the increment cus how can you increase rent by 100% without any tangible reasons. The country is hard on everyone.
We wanted to do a remembrance for my mum, and my dad suggested we go to her burial ground to clean it. I agreed initially, but when the day came, I told him I wasn’t going again because I realised that the trauma I experienced as a child might still be very much with me.
Even my dad, who eventually went, came back with his face all red from crying. I noticed it, but I said nothing. I just pretended I didn’t see him.
Throughout that day, my papa no chop. He just sat down, dey mutter “hmmm, hmmm, hmmm.” 💔
Some pains never really go away. We may learn to live with them, but certain memories have a way of reopening old wounds.
Now imagine if my mum had been buried inside my dad’s compound. The following day, they had to go to the hospital, and it was the hospital because his blood pressure had gone up.
Grief is deeper than people realise. Sometimes, the people we think are strong are only trying to hold themselves together.
I’ll advice everybody and I’m dead serious
Don’t mix your friends
Like don’t be the bridge that brings them together
I didn’t use to mind it before but now I’ve learnt
Having to make new friends from scratch because nobody can be objective is annoying
But I’ll do it
@Wer96w0p@fueki_lee Omo you are so stupid so as an adult you will wait for another adult to take you to the hospital for check up? Like imagine fighting for your right to not look after your self! But somehow you want to lead an entire home! Mumu
If there’s one person Chimsom could always rely on to defend, support, and care for him, it’s Sheba. 🥹🧡
Let’s show up for our sister.
She has worked hard for her spot, and she deserves this.🙏🧡
VOTE SHEBA!
@InyangBiet Omo you are too stupid 😂😂😂like you are an actual fool! So him he didn’t know he has a woman before distributing? I want to take it that you are looking for talk this morning, but even at that you are a fool.