Fat men are attractive. One reason is because he's big he can protect me. Another reason is that it tells me he's high cortisol and busy. Too busy to care about his appearance/health to an obsessive degree (feminine trait). Also means he's a hard worker and prob a good provider
the companions of Khadija I annoyed him one day and said: (It is) Khadija only who always prevails upon your mind. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: Her love had been nurtured in my heart by Allah Himself.
Sahih Muslim 2435
Call me old fashioned but i was made to serve my man. i was made to cook his food, wash his clothes, shine his shoes, massage his shoulders, be ready for any task he gives me, and be honored that i get to serve him. if he cheats on me, thats on ME