walach...
my last relationship left me questioning myself in ways I never imagined. what was wrong with me? why wasn't I enough? perhaps the cruelest damage isn't what someone does to you, but how long you spend doubting yourself, believing you were the reason they couldn't stay
Been there. Iโm the type of person who believes everything can be talked through, like if thereโs a problem, we sit down, communicate, and figure it out. One day I met someone who thought disappearing was a valid form of conflict resolution and yeahโฆthat shit drove me insane.
gua pernah denger, if you don't learn the lesson, the cycle repeats. selama lo belum sadar kalau pattern itu salah, semesta bakal terus ngirimin lu orang yang sama dengan ending yang sama persis. basically, youโre stuck in a loop until you finally wake up.
been there karena uda bbrp kali ungkapin apa yang bikin aku ga nyaman tp dibilang terlalu sensitif dan suka nyari keributan instead of dapet reassurance, so yeaaaaaah