And on the matter of masculinity dying,
1. If you are a woman and you believe that statement or you somehow feel disgusted when you see femininity displayed by a male or man, you hate yourself and you need help.
2. If you are a man and you believe the aforementioned statement, or you are disgusted by display of femininity by a man, you are toxic, you hate your mother and women. And I want to tell you never to get married or have kids.
Why you may say; Think of masculinity and femininity as it is YIN and YAN, little masculinity in femininity and vice verse.
Letโs assume a rule was made that all men should put on makeup, youโll find men who wouldnโt put on makeup not because they are disgusted by it or they donโt like it, itโs not just their style.
And if you want to really see masculinity that bad, get a clay and mould the type of masculinity you want. You canโt and shouldnโt dictate how someone should live their life and long as they are not hurting anyone.
It is how you people cannot wrap your heads around a man wearing a skirt and still be a man, effeminacy doesnโt and in anyway should be a yardstick of what defines a man.
Yโall need to ask yourselves what and who a man is suppose to be. And also Nonbinary exist ffs!
Youโll record men who work in hair salons, men who are tailors, fashion designers, in the creative space, and post their videos online as clickbait, knowing full well that people will try to ridicule them.
Youโve been going to hair salons all your life. You know that a lot of the men who work there are effeminate. You know the same is true of some men in fashion and other creative industries. You know this! So why are you suddenly acting surprised?
There are millions of men who fit your definition of masculinity. Focus on them if you wish, but stop making a spectacle of those who don't.
Stop deliberately singling people out, turning them into content and exposing them to public ridicule simply because they donโt fit your idea of what a man should be.
These people are simply working, earning a living and minding their business. Let them be! Donโt make videos of them.
LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE!!! โค๏ธ