one thing taurus szn has affirmed for me me is that i am so done entertaining things that involve me wasting my time.. my energy is far too valuable to be overextending myself like that. time is money fr
so the *actual* secret to becoming securely attached is to feel complete & happy on your own and still want a special person (or people) to share your life with
got it, that makes sense
when I was recovering from being a people pleaser I did this thing called “deliberate disappointment” for a few months to make sure ppl would still love me if I was totally useless and the ppl who didn’t bat an eye are still here today & those are the ppl I allow to depend on me
that might be such an earth moon thought but I'm just thinking about how you can kill a plant by watering it too much: not everyone has the same needs and that's important to learn how to treat people depending on what they want to - not only by some default settings.
All places where we experience a deep sense of loneliness and isolation, that's 12th house/Pisces.
whether it's a hospital, prison, uninhabited mountains, ashrams, or any other very isolated places etc are 12th house/Pisces.
i don’t regret loving anyone because i firmly believe that love is never wasted but many people did not deserve me. all i can do now is thank them for the discernment i built through them. loving the wrong people brought me into more love for myself.
My favourite instagram reel is of this couple where the man asks his love what she does since he pays the bills, cooks for her & takes care of her. She laughingly says, “I sing, I laugh, I dance. I didn’t come here to suffer. God has chosen to bless me through you.” Aura 10/10.
thinking you’re punishing me by rewarding me with my own solitude is a lot of people’s first mistake, not only have you taught me how to live without you but reminded me just how much i don’t have to compromise when i’m in my own company