@Chaotic_Cluster@rialocalizes@shewhowillrise his dad was not hawaiian. he lived on oahu bc of the military. that man was a WHITE man. hawaiian is an actual ethnicity, an indigenous identity.
i have adhd but ppl in my life have told me to chill on being punctual & arriving early, whether its an appointment, date, party, etc (i get irritated & anxious when IM late & its very noticeable).
but i genuinely dont give a fuck if other ppl are late.
@rlynicesweetboy @nightytay@lebantineala i went to a very poor school in hawaii, my husband the opposite. i had recruiters tell my classmates that they will never amount to anything & they’ll be stuck in our town doing the same shit for years, & will NEVER leave. at my husband’s school all they did was pull ups.
@microgoeswild its unfair to assume that ppl can know multiple things, especially ccs, outside of their bubble of ads and content. we all dont get fed the same things anymore.
@geovenera i remember this video!! i am from hawaii, specifically the big island & thought the same. we technically have a “desert” due to our volcanoes. so it was actually a very educated guess.
not impossible if your psychiatrist is an ADHD specialist. non-ND ppl have a surface level understanding of what ADHD is, i wouldnt be shocked if ur general psych cant understand. ADHD is a spectrum, especially in women. which is why women are diagnosed so late in their lives.
@lilbeanie_artz my family & i have struggled. we were poor in the philippines. my parents are older than any of these ppl claiming that bc my parents & i are filam our heritage is stripped away. its weird seeing how many pinoys measure filam’s filipinoness based on how badly theyre struggling.
@lilbeanie_artz its so weird seeing this conflict bc i was born & raised in the philippines then was naturalized as an american. every single argument i see from the pinoy side is this bs ‘lived experience’ which is mostly pinoy struggles vs filam struggles. its upsetting bc—