My needs are already fully met as a single person actually so a relationship is either going to add to more life or I’m not getting in one at all and I think that’s what y’all don’t comprehend
Every time I lose someone irl, I think of those who loved me unconditionally who are no longer walking this earth… it just doesn’t make sense to cry over those who can, but won’t. There are more important things…
I was just talking about how I self-soothe my ache for companionship by reminding myself everything I complain about handling alone i also handled alone while IN a relationship
A societal stance my autistic brain can't comprehend is how acknowledging that someone has treated you badly and calling them out on it is considered more disrespectful than actually treating someone badly. It's as if drawing attention to a misdeed is worse than committing one.
the phrase "lipstick on a pig" has always inspired a deep sadness in me. I think of the pig, looking forward to her big night out, and I bring myself to the verge of tears.