You guys don't understand how important it is to have friends who don't gatekeep.
Friends who tell you what worked for them, send you opportunities, introduce you to people, share resources and genuinely want to see you win.
Major cheat code for life: Every pattern in your life repeats until you learn the lesson. The moment you choose differently, the loop ends and growth begins.
I hate that we are in an age where you have to put yourself out there on social media. I hate it so much as it’s not everyone that’s comfortable with it.
the way yall get on this app & pretend as if yall never given someone a second chance EVER is crazy to me. this man has absolutely nothing to prove to yall & everything to prove to melanie.
LET IT GO
You are not better than the person who does the work and makes themselves visible.
It doesn’t matter how bright your ideas and intentions are.
Full stop.
My spouse and I have "laddered up" our whole careers. One in building mode, the other in earning mode.
Then it flips...
Another in building mode, the other in earning mode.
Fastest way to accelerate as a couple.
You have to be a team.
There's something peaceful about not taking every change in someone's life personally. People evolve, priorities shift, and sometimes their new life simply has less room for you.
I truly believe that to get anywhere in this life, we must learn to allow things be complicated. An oversimplified life is not worth living and it is important to be able to hold two truths or more at a time — To be hurt and be loved still, and to fear and to carry on despite.
I pay attention to whether people can tell themselves no. With money, relationships, attention, everything. A person who cannot govern themselves will eventually blame someone else for the consequences of their own lack of discipline.
even if melanie said “I got my man” before or after the apology, why does it matter?? she can’t be happy she got somebody she had deep feelings for back?? it’s such a stupid ass thing to hold over her head
I'm deeply, deeply ashamed of my income level, it's embarrassing for someone of my intellect and capability, and I need to do something radical.
Enough is enough. Why's a girl as smart as I am counting kobos? Hello?
@ohkhaay I used to be like this and always got sneaky and manipulative allegations so I just started being a bitch instead. I traumatize the traumatized now, they’ll villainize you anyway.
i think melanie’s actions towards women can kinda come off extra or theatrical sometimes(ex. her inviting kenzie over after all that & telling sol a complete stranger at that time that she can live with her) and i can see why ppl think she’s manipulative but i just think she lacks boundaries herself & shouldn’t be so quick to be nice/forgiving