Every year on his birthday, I get an email for Freddy, it’s Dolly singing happy birthday. And every year my older kids go, “hey that’s the lady who sends Freddy books!”
Our team, our local program partners, and every operational partner who helps make this program possible each month are heartbroken at the loss of our founder, Dolly Parton. (cont.)
But have you ever gone to the park and had your kids complain the entire time b/c they are hungry and thirsty? Not coddling. No, you don’t have to pack everything, but a little prep goes a long way. My mental load is actually unburdened when the experience is fun for everyone.
Much of the “mental load” mothers have is due to coddling their children. “Better pack everything!” Or else what? The kids won’t die if they don’t have immediate access to bottled water and snacks. It’s not a big deal. My goodness.
I think it’s important for everyone to know that the best way to protect your health, avoid the deleterious effects of chemicals, hormone disrupters, industrialized synthetics, etc., is actually really easy.
Just don’t be born. If you’re not alive, you don’t have to experience any of the effects of the fallen world. Your health? Never negatively impacted. It’s super simple.
If you’re reading this and you’ve already made the fatal mistake of being born and are now subject to entropy (only one documented survivor in history so far, but He did die first), you might as well clean something with bleach and try not to stress too much today over the EMF in the air because stress raises cortisol which causes inflammation and….wait Nevermind.
None of us are making it out alive so you might as well enjoy your life, be faithful with what you can, and stop looking for boogeymen in every corner of your kitchen. They’re there, I promise, but they’ve already lost.
Good question. This is literally one of my biggest fears and it came out of nowhere. Every time I’ve had a stuffy nose this past year I’ve panicked and thought, “this would be one of the worst ways to die.”
The obvious evil, blindness, and abject stupidity of the progressive ideologue who desired to murder political opponents last night must be contrasted with the photos of men protecting women.
Doing so offers a reminder of how fake, imposed, and artificial the contrivances of progressivism and all other nature-defying ideologies are.
What a broken, godless worldview with no brakes or limits set against the counter reality that creation order is a visual revelation of God’s design. Even in an emergency, how men and women relate to one another reflects a divine blueprint.
Trust what your conscience tells you about chivalrous action versus the moronic actions of a dimwit wannabe-assassin.
Rosaria Butterfield on the inevitability of the patriarchy:
"The Bible teaches biblical patriarchy, also called complementarianism. I use those two terms as synonyms because I believe they are. My support of patriarchy did not come easily or because I suddenly started to believe that men were good. 'No man is good' Psalm 53:1-3 declares and Romans 3:10 restates.
But because men are evil and not good, we need godly men, men who have committed their lives to Jesus and who live under the authority of a true Bible-believing church to protect their families, their churches, and their neighborhoods from the dangerous droves of wolves.
If you look at women's sports today, you look at drag queen story hour, you look at all this nonsense, you are going to see something—men are going to be in charge, whether it's men gyrating in front of five year-olds in the library or it's godly men who lead this university and your churches. It's not which, it's not whether men are going to be in charge. It's which men you want in charge.
We need more warrior pastors, warrior Christian presidents. The droves of vile and perverse ideas that are out there are sickening. We need protection from that. We cannot go to war against the very solution God gives us."
I’m seeing a lot of foolish controversies play out on X involving edgelords on the far right who seem allergic to limiting principles. The result is either the adoption of—or flirtation with—utterly vile figures and positions: racism, Kinism, eugenics, antisemitism, and contempt for women. Titus 3:9 and 2 Timothy 2:23 apply directly here. These are foolish debates not worth fanning. What we’re watching is monetized quarreling fueled by vainglory. Ignore it (meanwhile, I’m aware that I’m ironically discussing it here). These discussions are not profitable; they merely expose—and self-select—those willing to set their reputations on fire out of fear of never being outflanked.
It’s striking how so-called bravery and moral turpitude become indistinguishable once the test for credibility is “basedness” rather than Scripture. And yes, I’m aware that some of these voices attempt to shoehorn their positions back into the Bible through strained exegesis. This is actually eisegesis at its finest: “We can’t condemn interracial marriage outright because Scripture includes cross-ethnic marriages, so let’s invent an extenuating factor or extra-biblical category that allows us to question it while still maintaining our ultra-based credentials.”
As always, we must choose whose side we are on. “Left” and “Right” are surface-level categories. The deeper question is whether one’s views align with Scripture. If political coalitions determine the boundaries of acceptable coalitions and viewpoints, one will inevitably drift, slowly normalizing positions that one’s former self would have found plainly unreasonable just a few years ago. This is why we must cast our lot with the Bible and its call to moral righteousness—not, ultimately, with “Right” or “Left.” The Bible is not a Third Way document (and I think Third Wayism is a naïve failure). It is the document upon which all other categories stand or fall.
One additional factor is worth noting. I came of age during the height of the now-defunct Emergent Church movement. I was theologically young at the time, sensed something was off, and trusted leaders who warned that Emergent figures would eventually reveal themselves as theological liberals. They were right. I cannot name a single prominent Emergent leader who did not eventually drift into outright heresy. There is a parallel here. For some time now, I’ve noticed that significant portions—not all—of the Christian Nationalism conversation exhibit an unhealthy fixation on race, ethnicity, and Jews. I found it disturbing and thought, this is not going to end well. This is where we are right now. This conversation is metastasizing in real-time.
And here we are. Views that would once have been unthinkable are now entertained under the cover of “just asking questions,” challenging the “post-war consensus,” or subverting “effeminate Reformed evangelicalism.” Not all questioning is wrong in the same way that not everything we inherit is inherently praiseworthy. What appears to be happening, however, is that concern for Western civilization has eclipsed concern for piety, virtue, prudence, and self-control—creating a passageway for the invitation, normalization, and even baptism of sentiments that are not merely anti-progressive, but profoundly anti-Christian. If you have cast your lot with this camp, now would be a prudent moment to step back and reassess before you find yourself carried even further downstream.
I’m told there’s an emerging segment of young American males completely done with the liberal order. There are many aspects of liberal order worth questioning and re-considering (among them mass immigration, feminism, globalism, identity politics, sexual revolution, etc.). That’s fine. And I'm genuinely thankful for the renewed focus on issues related to political theology. My call is to question those within the constraints of biblical fidelity, not warmed-over old-fashioned bigotry seasoned with cruelty and arrogance.
From the push for women’s ordination to the normalization of homosexuality, the strategy has been to weaponize the empathy of women against the clarity of Scripture. Once Christians refuse to call sin what God calls sin, the ground is ceded.
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The reason government programs are so inefficient is that, unlike a commercial company, the feedback loop for improvement is broken, because they have a state-mandated monopoly and can’t go out of business if customers are unhappy.
No matter how bad the service is at your DMV (sorry to pick on DMVs), you still have to use your DMV, because it’s a monopoly.
Apple needs to bring back IPods. Kids should be able to listen to music and audiobooks without having a cell phone or a device that is also a screen for playing games, texting, using the internet. Let kids be kids!
Beware of grumbling. It is a deadly sin that sent an entire generation to hell.
Grumbling is a protest against God's providence in our life.
Lord, make us grateful for even Your most peculiar providences. Help us trust You who knows what we don't know and sees what we don't see
The Gaines debacle is disappointing for more than one reason, the first is the capitulation to the culture by supposed Christians. Secondly, I just really would have liked to watch the show. My family would have enjoyed it were it not for the two men pretending family.
Piper (APJ 45):
“One time I got really mad at Noël because I found a whole crate of rotten pears in the garage. This was about 35 years ago. She had forgotten the fruit and it rotted in the garage. I went to her and said, ‘What’s with the pears?!’
‘Oh, I forgot them.’
‘A whole crate of pears just rotted in the garage?!’ I said, and on and on and on. And I was getting down on her (like I have never done anything like that).
And she went back to the bedroom. She’s hurt. And I am mad as all get out. And to kill time I took the garbage down to the street because it was a garbage pick-up day.
And when I got on the driveway the sun was as bright and glorious as could be. The sky was blue. A sweet breeze was blowing on my face. And I stopped and cried. I just cried, because God was kissing me on the cheek after that rotten attitude. And it broke me like nothing else.
He could have caused a car to careen over the curb and smack me into the hospital, and he would have been absolutely right to do so. But instead he smiled upon me. God is always disciplining us. He is always doing things for our good, both gentle and hard things.”
Kids can do more intellectually than you think → Elementary-age brains are primed for memorization. They love poetry, historical dates, Shakespeare, and beautifully crafted fiction.
BUT
Kids can do LESS emotionally than you think → Their prefrontal cortex is still developing. They need help managing emotions, staying focused, resolving conflict, and resisting distractions like screens.
When you honor how they’re built, you unlock who they can become❤️
The best antidote for anxiety is frequent meditation upon God’s goodness, power and sufficiency… Nothing is too big and nothing is too little to spread before and cast upon the Lord.
A. W. Pink
🚨Missouri Abolition Bills Scheduled for a Hearing Tomorrow🚨
HB 1072 and HB 1417 by @JustinMSparks and Burt Whaley are scheduled for a public hearing tomorrow morning (April 15) at 8:00AM in the House Children and Families Committee.
If you live in Missouri, please try to attend this hearing and testify to show support for equal protection in Missouri. HB 1072 and HB 1417 are identical bills, both of which would provide equal protection to every preborn child in Missouri.
@abarefootmomma If you decide to have an epidural or be induced you may be tempted to feel like it’s not as “real” or something, fight those feelings! There is no shame in doing what makes it easier/happier/better for you.