All relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change
As I get older, Iโm starting to realise that the purest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. In any bond how much they care about you is found in how much they consider you.
People reveal who they really are in their patterns. Not in what they say when theyโre trying to fix things, explain themselves, or look good in the moment..but in what they consistently choose to do. Repeated behavior tells the truth every time. Pay attention to what stays the same, especially after conversations, apologies, and second chances. Patterns donโt lie, and they always show you exactly where you stand.
In any normal circumstance Rachel would have been called out on her bullshit but unfortunately sheโs playing against a brainless bunch of idiots #thetraitors