men are the real gold diggers. they expect you to give them your body, play maid, cook their meals, raise their kids, clean their mess, pamper their fragile egos, and take the brunt of emotional labor, all while holding down a job and splitting the bills !!
i think my 🚩 is that, I never know how to talk about my feelings. I talk to myself in my head a lot about how I feel & I explain it so well, but getting it to actually come out my mouth is so hard.
i want romance soooo bad im tired of settling for the bare minimum. I want intimacy. I want the 3am love making. I want the random looks of admiration. I want "I MISS YOU" text. I want date nights and flowers. I want reassurance. I want priority. I want love that's pure and true
I hope I marry a man who's Thoughtful. I don't want flowers on valentine's day because that's what you're "supposed to do". I want flowers on a random Tuesday bcz you thought of me on your way home.
no he's not cheating, but there's no flowers, no surprises, no appreciation posts, no sweet.messages, no dates (unless you practically beg for them). the truth is laziness CAN slowly kill love. sometimes simply being loyal just isn't enough