The biggest myth is that family always has your back and that you can trust them with anything. Sometimes, it's literally the opposite. They are literally the enemy.
I want somebody who WANTS to go out with me and WANTS to spend time with me and WANTS to go adventuring and WANTS to listen to me talk about my day and ENJOYS who I am and who I want to be and I'll be the exact same way for them. That's what I want right now.
A man can genuinely like you, enjoy your company, be attracted to you, care about you, and still not want to build a relationship with you. That is the part many women struggle to accept.