Another day to remind you that you are from a poor home & you need to work tirelessly till you find your feet.
Pick up your phone and scroll through your contacts you’ll realize you have nobody
Don’t relent, trade & backtest a strategy, Trade & filter it
Give yourself a chance
There are so many flowers you haven't received yet. So many tables you haven't sat at. Stay a little longer. Some of the most beautiful chapters of your life haven't even opened yet. Don't rush through life.
I am a man, I have cheated on my wife before and she found out but didn't leave me because of it.
But if I catch my wife cheating, she knows that I'll not consider the fact that she decided to overlook mine.
I am not saying this out of pride.
But I can never spend money on any woman out there while neglecting the needs of my wife and children.
So, it would be hypocritical for me to come here to advise married women to leave their marriage or cheat back if their husbands cheat.
I know that the consequences between a man and a woman is not the same when it comes to cheating.
The woman suffers more, and by extension, the innocent children involved.
What I can only advise married women who may have cheated or are cheating is to avoid being caught and stop whatever they're doing and focus on their husbands going forward.
That's the most realistic and non-hypocritical advise that I can give.
If they like, they should be comparing themselves with men.
If they like, they should not take the advice, too.
But a man should be careful how he does his things, especially when he knows that he's not fully meeting up to his responsibilities at home.
It may not aurgur for with him.
And not every wife has shame or forgiving hearts.
End.
Dear young men,
Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.
This is how you know that you may have found your wife:
1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.
2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.
3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.
4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.
5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.
6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.
7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.
8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.
9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.
10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.
11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.
12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.
13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.
14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.
15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.
If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.
And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
End.
There’s no big bro or young boy when it comes to the hustle. The fact that someone is way younger than you doesn’t mean you can’t learn a thing or two from him. If he has the right information that could change your life, humble yourself and ask him to put you on.
One evening I was buying fruits. A small boy came to me and said, “Sir, please give me 300 naira to buy bread for my sister. We have not eaten since morning.” I nearly walked away because many people tell stories in Abuja. But I stopped and gave him 1,000 naira. As I was leaving, the fruit seller called me back. She said the boy was telling the truth. His mother died last month, and now he takes care of his younger brothers and sisters by himself. When I looked around, the boy had run away. My 1,000 naira now felt too little. Sometimes people need help more than we know. Be kind, you never know what others are going through.**
I know you’re awake, wondering what today might bring and hoping that God will answer your prayers because you feel like you have no one to help you. My brother, worry no more. Go on your knees, thank God for everything He has done for you, and ask Him to send your helpers your way. Trust His timing, because He can make a way where there seems to be none. Good morning ❤️
An average Nigerian is not a good person. The environment don just wire everyone to “Survive”. Which ever way it takes or plays. It’s sad but that’s the truth. An average Nigerian feels smart when they cheat the other person. “I use am for am”, ahahah. sad. Sad. God help us all. It’s embedded in our subconscious. Everything be like war. The country don scar us. You don’t have to hurt the next person to fucking grow, or win.
If you have built yourself to a level where you're a high value man, women will not deny you sex, and they'll avoid begging you for money.
It's only low level men that women starve of sex and beg for money.
Or threaten to break up with them, because they hardly spend.
And you don't have to be rich to be a high value man.
I was fucking several women and they were head over heels for me, when I was very young and broke.
I fuck wetin no good.
And I still bagged a high value wife.
End.
In this world, everything is temporary. We came here with nothing, and soon we will leave everything behind. So relax and stop stressing over things you cannot manage.
Yes, at the end of the tunnel, there is light; but what they didn't tell you is how long or short the tunnel will be. That's why giving up is not an option. You might be so close to the light or still far from it, but eventually, the tunnel will end. Keep pressing on.