100%. ppl treat you differently when you’re overweight. & it’s not even necessarily about being in shape. simply being perceived as slim can make ur entire experience of moving thru the world dramatically different.
@cityofanne they can, they just dont want to accept that their audience would be mostly gay men. they want us to be horny for internet stranger private parts like they are and a lot of our brains just aren’t wired like that
we mistake men’s desire for women as love & women’s anger toward men as hate without looking at what’s underneath either. a man will pursue women constantly while caring very little about them as people. a woman can be furious with men because she’s tired of being desired without being regarded as a person. his desire gets read as affection. her response to being objectified gets read as hatred. those are only what lives on the surface. a lot of men despise women.