@ABUJAPLUG Shw doesn't need all of that. She should just go to transcorp hotel in the morning or evening, she'll pick her choice from the thousands of Abuja boy without having to pay an allowance
If you are seeing a pattern of dysfunctional men in the society, those men used to be boys.
Our lens needs to focus on raising better boys.
You cannot be chanting "stop raping women" when you were instrumental in evoking sexual perversion in those boys.
@SympLySimi STFU!
@Vicyndysimipeal The first and most important criteria for a Christian marriage is salvation. Next to it is denomination. This may look like nothing until you see other believers who are completely abnormal
My husbandโs friendโs marriage ended just 3 months after the weddingโฆ because they couldnโt agree on attending the same church.
The husband wanted his wife to join his church after marriage.
The wife refused. She was deeply committed to her church and served as a Childrenโs Department Coordinator. According to her, she had built a strong bond with the kids and couldnโt walk away from them.
The husband suggested she could continue serving in the same department in his church, maybe even grow more there. She declined.
He also expressed concern about being under different doctrines and how it could affect their unity. She still refused.
What started as disagreement turned into protest.
She stopped cooking.
She denied him intimacy.
Both reported each other to their respective pastors.
Family members and church leaders tried to mediate.
Her pastor insisted she stay.
His pastor emphasized unity in marriage and encouraged her to join her husband.
No compromise.
No resolution.
Three months later, the marriage ended.
Personally, I feel conversations like this should be settled during the talking stage. But sometimes, people will do what they want to do anyway.
May we not marry the wrong partner๐
I remembered vividly a video of a certain young chap that was speaking in tongues on this app that went viral. There was nothing vile that wasn't said about it but here we are praising a child. We all know what we're doing.