It’s about the relationship dynamic you want. If what’s important to you in a relationship is about keeping track or splitting 50/50 then go ahead. For me, feeling taken care of is what I care about so I will only go out with people who want to take care of me in that manner.
I just saw a woman explain why she doesnt do 50/50 on dates and her reasoning gagged me.
She said : if i go alone id be paying for my meal, and if go on a date and pay 50/50 id still be paying for my meal so why would i want to get dressed up, spend energy on emotional labor, holding conversations, entertaining my date, if im just gonna pay for my own food anyway? Id rather wear my yoga set and scroll uninterrupted.
And couldnt have said that any better!!!
@namgistory I cringe every time someone projects a trait onto him😭 and honestly this is with bts as well.. if you Stan bts for any reason other than the fact that their craft is GOOD then… 😬
it will be yeontan’s 8th birthday in a few hours. please remember taehyung said “i think i would be grateful if armys could think of yeontan once in a while so that he can be happy even on that star.”
If BTS are a recipe for bean soup and you don’t like beans don’t comment about how to change their recipe, find a different fucking recipe. Every opinion I’ve hear is so self centred and entitled. BTS are artists, not products, so stop acting like a consumer and act like a fan
Name me one company that background checks every person and demands it to be spotless before given permission to interact. you do realize that’s insane right? In case you missed it, we want bts to be free to do what they want, not be stuck or controlled by a company AND OR fans
I need them gone so bad, idc if the fandom cuts in half, it’ll be better than having to share space with miserable people who don’t actually care about them.
can’t believe we’re forever stuck with fans who got into bts because of their activism and think they’re just rich heartless people and their music sucks there’s literally no other fandom like this
This part!! do you think I’d want to see criticism or random ass bad takes about my friends or family members?? NO
same thing applies for the tannies!!! discuss it with other people idc but it will NOT be with meeee
and the context is: he zipped that jacket up after telling fans that he’ll “see” if he’ll open it again based on our energy, low and behold he opens it in 1verse. he knows how to command each and everyone of us 🙂↕️