kalau “good boyfriend” ultimately means “cowo yang bisa beliin gue ini itu dan tf sekian sekian”, then maybe what we’re romanticizing isn’t love, but financial security. xixixi
😭😭 gak jarang liat konten good & loving boyfriend isinya barang2 mahal dan transfer2an... not even a slide of how good they talk to their girlfriend or how compassionate they are. terus komennya when yah hm mungkin kita emg gabutuh pacar butuhny duit kali
pernah denger masturbasi mental?
mental masturbation adlh suatu sikap mencari kepuasan dr percakapan or tindakan intelektual tanpa implementasi and tujuan praktis.
maksudnya gmn? contoh, lu ngomong mau jd org sukses, kasi tau plan A B C D ke org”, tp belom sebulan udh ga dilanjutin plan” tsb.
kt hrs sadar sm hal ini, goals tuh butuh aksi, bkn cuman kata”
orang-orang bilang "if he wanted, he would"
aku pegang banget kata-kata itu, until my psychologist said:
"mungkin bukan dia gak sayang kamu, but simply because he is not ready baik psikologis, financial, maupun emosional. jadi belajar bertemu di tengah, ya? cause sometimes, it's not just if he wants, he would. it's also if you love him, you will learn to understand from his side. we're human, after all."
disturb me.
update me.
show your jealous side.
yap non stop.
spam me photos/texts.
tell me how your day went.
show me your fit.
call me anytime.
i love all that