turns out, reading a lot, exercising, loving people without expecting anything back, protecting your alone time, focusing only on improving yourself, and sometimes staying out late with friends who make you laugh until it hurts is a pretty good way to live.
I will never fall for the not making friends at work propaganda
I’ve made friends at work who have helped me land my next role, helped me with interview prep, helped me with salary negotiations and who are just cool people doing cool things
Some of u are so scrary bruv don’t care about art don’t care about ur friends don’t care about your locals don’t care about ur communities don’t care about don’t care about ai don’t care about discrimination ,anything but getting income and doomscrolling memes like so scary man .
I don’t know what any of my exes are doing. I don’t know what any of my former friends are doing. and you’re not supposed to! there was a time when you just never saw a person again. I’m nostalgic for those times. disappear like a ghost! woooo!
Some of the best qualities in a person:
- genuinely happy about other people’s wins
- high agency
- gets excited over little things
- curious not judgmental
- owns their own mistakes & poor choices
- kind to people who can do nothing for them
- authentic even when it’s hard
- does what they say they’re going to do or more
- values how life feels > how life looks
- okay with being disliked