๐คค Hey you, Yes u ๐, I'm your sister now ๐ป || ๐ค Je suis une femme battante ๐ || ๐ Sapiosexual ๐ฎ || ๐ธ November Queen ๐ ||๐ท || โฆ
You'll know you're healing when you unlearn that being seen and not heard is how you get love and approval. Realizing that you have a voice and that you deserve to be seen, heard, and accepted will start to present itself more clearly in your life and relationships.
You'll know you're healing when self abandonment is no longer looked at as an act of love. Nourishing and prioritizing yourself will become just as important as showing up for those around you.
You'll know you're healing when quitting becomes an option. Trusting that you don't have to stay anywhere that leaves you feeling less than,unworthy won't be as difficult. You'll start to feel more aligned and empowered in your decisions versus overwhelmed and unsure.
You'll know you're healing when you stop pretending that you're not upset or hurting. Giving yourself more grace as you move through grief or disappointment will become easier and less intimidating.
You can be shaped, or you can be broken. There is not much in between. Try to learn. Be coachable. Try to learn from everybody, especially those who fail.