there’s not really a shorthand for “i think i have a bit of a crush on you and i’m not going to do anything about it due to risk of messiness but the door is wide open for you to do something about it”
Your are not in your villain era. You are not evil. You are a sweetie pie who got hurt and has better boundaries now. You are fiesty with a pure heart. Remember that.
Most men learnt one thing about women and never looked back.. That you can't pamper a woman who doesn't like you into liking you.. Put efforts to women who actually like you and see the difference
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.