Kim T

Mother. Adopted. Adjunct.

[Kim T @beycatknown]

Adoptive families, you must accept that adoptees have other families. We will wonder.We may search. It's not about you. #FlipTheScript #NAAM

[Angie Thomas @angiecthomas]

To the Black kids waiting and watching:

You matter.

You are loved.

You have worth.

You have value.

Don’t let ANYTHING tell you otherwise.

[Chris Hayes @chrislhayes]

The whole debate is a microcosm of our national nightmare. A complete sociopath barking at everyone as everyone tries do their best to kind of work normal.

[AI For Anyone @aiforanyone]

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[Kim T @beycatknown]

I grew up not knowing if it was okay to exist. Then I went thru #adoptionreunion and...I still feel that way. 😕

[Kim T @beycatknown]

Et tu, Target?! #NAAM2019 #adoption #adoptee

[Kim T @beycatknown]

@MaeveKelly11 I don’t get these aparents. How can they say that to us? It’s disgusting. 😢Hate feeling minimized when I already feel unwanted. Well, it is a big deal and you are worth everything. 😘

[Kim T @beycatknown]

Damn. I was also chosen because she “fell in love.” Or as my Amom later said, “you are our bargain bin baby! We couldn’t afford adopting (a white newborn) and you were cheaper because you were biracial and older.”

[Kim T @beycatknown]

@tck1966 I used to be completely loyal. After APs cut me off for searching and bmom waffled, I changed. No more taking shit from ppl. I still give more chances than others deserve but I’ve begun easily walking away. Adios, mother fuckers. 😆

[Heather Cox Richardson (TDPR) @HC_Richardson]

He has taken on dictatorial powers. If GOP won’t stop him, we have to assume we have undergone a coup. https://t.co/X4vpTsm6rK

[Kim T @beycatknown]

@mommalaurie101 I’m actually feeling empowered by this thought. Strange but true 😊

[Kim T @beycatknown]

Bmom says I cried every time I saw her so she thought the month-old-me hated her. 🤔🙄 Couldn’t help but make this pic in her honor. Here’s to the sociopathic bmom and the abusive narcissistic amom in my life:

[Angry Adoptee Sadé Marie @LittleMorbid13]

“Any relationship you have that could get ruined by having a conversation about your feelings standards and expectations wasn’t really stable enough to begin with” Adoptees who are scared of being honest to their APs about their true feelings regarding adoption need to hear this.

[Kim T @beycatknown]

I made it this far without a mother. Why am I telling myself I need one? Why am I trying to force a relationship that isn’t working? I may have lost a mother but she chose to lose me multiple times. Enough. I deserve better. #adoptee

[Kim T @beycatknown]

I’m back to being me! Yesterday a judge approved my name change. Reclaimed my birth name. #victory #adoptee

[Kim T @beycatknown]

@joneski Thank you. I often wonder if she truly has feelings or if everything she does is simply a manipulation. The more interactions I have with her, the more I lean towards the latter.

[Kim T @beycatknown]

Happy Motherless Day! My bmom chose today to say she needs time to think about her emotions and is pulling away yet again. Sigh. I get it but every time she does this, I’m less interested in any sort of relationship with her. 💔

[Kim T @beycatknown]

✋🏼🤚🏼

[Kim T @beycatknown]

“We are the ones whose families gave up on us.” Fuck. This is exactly how I’m feeling. And I honestly just want to give up on myself too. I’m tired of fighting for the right to exist.

[Kim T @beycatknown]

Even when your mom rejects you for the 3rd time, fellow adoptees, remember that it isn’t your fault. And it isn’t mine either. ❤️