The real cheat code in life? Finding a significant other who's unproblematic, insanely attractive to you, and fully committed to doing life together with you. Everything else just falls into place.
We can’t date casually. We can’t casually have sex. There’s nothing casual about being in my space. I’m a real lover. There is nothing casual about my intimacy. There is nothing casual about my heart.
Don’t borrow shame from the past. You are not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it. All you can do is really do better.