Chasing someone to prove your worth or to keep them around is a trauma response, not love. You don't have to beg or force anything that's genuinely meant for you. The right person will bring you peace, not confusion. Healing really begins the moment you stop needing to be chose & start choosing yourself. & when you finally outgrow that version of you, the one who tolerated less, it hits different. Their words no longer move you. Their actions don't shake you. You've found the strength to want more, to expect more. The thought of settling disgusts you, & although you're scared, you're ready for the life you deserve. It's everything!
According to Jeremiah 29:11, everything is already planned out for your life. Trust God's guidance & have faith that he will lead you toward the path that's meant for you.🦋
One thing I’ve learned is when your spirit tells you to fall back from certain people, listen. Every time I ignored that feeling, I ended up seeing exactly why it was there in the first place. Sometimes nothing major even happens.
Nobody talks about how hard it is to rewire your brain and allow yourself to receive amazing things after so much trauma and so many bad experiences with people
I think the problem is we don’t allow God to work. We do what we want to do & ask him to bless something that isn’t even for us. Being patient with God is way better than rushing and doing your own thing.