A friend of mine spent years disappearing into herself. She smoked constantly. Drank almost every night. Over time she gained weight, lost confidence, and fell into a depression so deep you could feel she had stopped believing her life could become anything different.
Then one night, about two years ago, something happened that I still can’t fully explain.
We were sitting at a bar with friends. Completely ordinary night. She was maybe two drinks in when she suddenly went quiet.
Sometimes, no matter how deeply you care, some people will never see your worth. They ignore your feelings, overlook your efforts, and take your presence for granted. That's not your value decreasing, it's a sign you're giving your heart to the wrong people.
Just a friendly reminder. Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone because when they stop communicating or stop talking to you, you might not recover from it. Remember, people wake up with different feelings everyday. That’s why it’s important to stay grounded and not rely too much on anyone for your happiness. Protect your peace.
I’ve learned that not everyone deserves an explanation. Some people have already decided who you are and no amount of words will change a mind that’s committed to misunderstanding you. People will question your silence, misread your intentions or create stories about your life without ever knowing the full picture. I’d rather spend my energy building the life I want than defending it. My peace is worth protecting and not every opinion deserves a response. Time has a way of revealing what’s real. So let people assume, talk and judge if they want. Keep growing, keep moving and let your life tell the story they’re too busy guessing.
Nobody ever apologized for how they treated me. They skipped right past what they did and focused on how I reacted to it. It’s easier for some people to point at your response than take accountability for what caused it. That taught me a lot. I stopped expecting accountability from people who couldn’t even admit when they were wrong.
You cannot spend years breaking a child's spirit and then expect a few words in adulthood to repair what took years to destroy. You cannot teach a child to fear your footsteps, your voice, your moods, and your anger, then expect them to see you as a source of comfort later in life
@yannanajae Yea they drove by n switched…Switched a lil more…Skreeched n stopped, waited like 4 seconds then switched a lil more…Paused for like 5 more seconds then let off like 15 more shots from another gun. Heard she got shot in the back and leg ..So I think the later rounds got her
Imagine you gettin jumped by some people and somebody come save you, snatch mfs off you and all. Then he pick you up and turn you around and realize you not who he thought you was and tell everybody they can start back jumpin you…😲😭💀
I’m not a 50/50 Guy. I knew I wanted to be the provider nomatter my sexuality. You can pay lil bills or buy food sometimes but I actually enjoy handling most of the responsibilities.