When last did you go out, have maximum fun, without having to spend a dime ?
Exactly.. ‘Happiness’ has been monetized my bro.
So now you have to spend, then PRETEND to be enjoying yourself.
Till you start finding happiness in just your essence as a modern Man, you’ll almost never truly be genuinely happy.
“If she’s a babymama, dump her. If her mother born for more than two men, dump her. If she sees iPhone, clothes and wigs as achievements, dump her. If she doesn’t have tfare in 2026, dump her. If she justify cheating, dump her.”
— Gehgeh says after Frank Edoho follows him on IG
@VikyInsights Frank fucked up big time. You don't need to have "soft talks" with a man fucking your wife! You discard her the first instance he found out she's cheating.
This right here is where the disrespect started.
"I'm tired of poverty. I hope to get out of this poverty soon"
Solution: find a man
Same person:
- marriage benefits men more
- refuses to take your surname
- refuses to cook for you
- weaponizes sex
- turn feminist in your home
- japa and destroy you
It is easy to look at a moment like that and assume it says something about humanity, but the more I thought about it, the more complicated it felt.
Owning a dog comes with responsibility. Once you decide to keep an animal, feeding and caring for it is no longer optional. It becomes a duty you accepted the moment you brought the dog home. Fulfilling that obligation is not the same thing as choosing who deserves help and who does not.
There is also the reality that in a city like Lagos, the need around you is endless. On some streets you can meet ten people asking for help within a few minutes. No single person can respond to every request. Many people have given before, again and again, until they reach a point where they have to start setting limits.
Experience also changes how people respond. Some people have been scammed, manipulated, or pressured before. After that, generosity becomes more cautious. It is not always a loss of compassion. Sometimes it is simply a lesson learned.
There is also another side people rarely see. Some prefer to help in quieter ways. They support relatives, contribute to community causes, or donate to organized charities instead of giving money on the street. From the outside it might look like indifference, but the full story is rarely visible in a single moment.
Modern life constantly puts suffering in front of us. If we reacted emotionally to every single case we encountered, it would quickly become overwhelming. So people start managing their boundaries. They decide where their responsibility begins and where it ends.
Maybe what you witnessed was not someone becoming less human. Maybe it was just someone navigating responsibility, experience, and the uncomfortable truth that there are far more people in need than any one person can help.
1. Religion normalizes suffering by calling it a test.
2. Most believers would likely have adopted a different religion if they were born elsewhere. You are most likely a Christian today because your parents are.
3. Religion gives people false hope. It serves as therapy without them even realizing it. “2026 is your year of prosperity and breakthrough.”
4. Many people who go to church today are transactional. They worship God with the hope that He will bless them immensely in return. If you remove rewards, most people would likely not worship God.
5. Islam, as a religion, is responsible for more than 80 percent of the world’s problems. Just look at the Middle East. I really do not understand how we are expected to believe it is a religion of peace. For every terrorist attack, it is often carried out by Muslims.
6. From personal experience, the worst set of people to deal with are overly religious people. It is as if the more religious a person is, the more wicked they become.
7. Just like tribe, religion has brought more division than unity among people, especially here in Nigeria. Even among Christians, members of a particular church like Jehovah’s Witnesses will refuse to marry you or even be friends with you because, to them, you are a “worldly” person.
8. Religion makes people docile. For you to be a great believer, you must drop your sense of reasoning. It discourages people from asking rational questions because they do not want to offend God.
9. Most religious people, especially Christians, love, adore, and worship their pastors without even realizing it. They idolize men of God, sometimes even above God Himself.
10. Religion is one of the easiest ways to extort money from people or mislead them. Once you say “God said,” people take the words as final without doubt.
11. There is little difference between the prosperity gospel and capitalism. In fact, many churches are purely businesses. They operate like corporate entities, and when the General Overseer dies, his child takes over.
12. Homosexuality is more common among pastors and church brothers than people admit.
13. What most pastors refer to as communication from God is just intuition. They did not hear anything from God.
14. Most pastors are motivational speakers in disguise who know Bible verses and have learned how to speak in tongues, which is often just gibberish.
15. Miracles suddenly disappear when medical verification and cameras are present.
16. If every pastor claims that God called them, why do they all proceed to open their own personal churches? You cannot worship God in an existing church unless you open your own?
17. The Catholic Church remains the only true church in the world. If you must be a Christian, you should be a Catholic.
18. Till today, I still do not believe in prayers being answered. What we regard as answered prayers are purely coincidence or sheer hard work. If prayers actually work, why do they not fix the impossible, like all the prayers made for Nigeria? Ten people can pray and enter a bus to travel. An accident happens, eight die, and two survive. Does it mean the prayers of the other eight were not enough or not answered? Selective answered prayers suggest coincidence more than intervention.
19. Religion was created as a tool of control rather than out of reverence for God. It is easier to control people with religion than with governmental laws. Without religion, the world would be full of crime.
20. Children should not be introduced to religion until they have attained at least the age of 13.
Survivors weren’t needed when Ezra got fired for his old tweets, all that was needed were his tweets. But it’s Simi’s turn, a woman who did the same thing, around the same time, and nothing can be done to her.
With Simi, the write-up was cruise, but it’s real with Ezra. It’s God that will judge all of you.
At the end, even if nothing will be done to her since we are in a lawless country, and a society where they would rather incarcerate innocent men for false accusations, and cover up for eviI women, the world already knows who she is and what she stands for; no damage control or manipulation can wash that, no fake activism from her like she cares about some victims somewhere can wash that.
We women live a terrifying double life. A mother will look at her teenage son with absolute, boundless empathy. She will hold him when he cries, tell him his feelings matter, and pray to God that he finds a woman who loves him for his pure heart, not his wallet.
But that exact same woman will turn around and look at her husband, who is literally someone else’s grown son and treat him like a malfunctioning piece of farm equipment if he loses his job or shows a moment of emotional fragility. We completely compartmentalize the fact that the men we drain, stress out, and demand traditional protection from were once little boys who were promised that their hearts mattered.
Look at the advice mothers pass down. It is pure, unfiltered hypocrisy.
We sit our daughters down and say: "Never settle. Make sure he is a provider. If he is struggling financially, do not build him up, leave him. You deserve a King." But if a mother catches wind that her son's girlfriend is treating him that way? If her son loses his job and his girlfriend packs her bags? That mother will lose her mind. She will call the girlfriend a gold-digger. She will call her toxic.
We are actively raising our daughters to become the exact type of women we pray our sons never meet.
What baffles me about the whole marriage and what both parties are bringing is…
Women tell you cooking/cleaning/sex and birthing children are ‘unpaid labour’.. Some even outrightly tell you “I GAVE YOU CHILDREN”(insinuating that should be enough as what she’s bringing to you)
But check it, why is it that when the marriage goes south, how come the Man’s duties almost never stops ?
Everything she claims to bring stops while the things the Man brings continue ?
Even at the point of divorce, court still orders the Man to be taking care of the children + their Mom.. And in most cases, still allow the mother take the kids(same kids they claim they GAVE TO HIM)
He’s still providing, paying sch fee, clothing and all.. EVEN WHEN THE SAID MARRIAGE IS OVER.
Now let’s flip!
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At the point of divorce, court NEVER orders the Woman to still go and be sleeping with the Man(since they claim they bring sex)
Court never compels her to come and continue cooking and cleaning for the Man.
Apparently, your duty never stops as a Man while hers ceases automatically and entirely lol smh.
See…
As a Man in this modern era, you’ll be such a stupid fool to accept a ‘My body is what I bring to the table’ Woman.. or the “I gave you children” Woman… or the “My money is my money” woman.
You’ll be such an idiot to accept such I promise you.
There's no nomenclature you people are not inventing for bad behavior.
For women, it is overstimulation but when it's a man, he lacks emotional intelligence.
You are regarding women as mindless kids who have no control over their emotions.
Men like you, are the problem.
I hate to support men but abeg! Women on this app need to stop. It’s getting distasteful atp. Men can’t hype themselves up? They can’t self adore? They shouldn’t have standards? Women do these everyday and the world doesn’t stop. Men are not it but y’all need to touch grass!!!