Honestly relationship isn't supposed to be a prison, people are meant to have a life outside it so yes go on friendship dates and take pictures but don't come back to me.
YouTubers be like “wake up at 4am and run, that’s alpha!” No, it’s not. Look at apex predators; they’re all lazy. Bears hibernate, lions sleep all day. You know who wakes up at 4am and runs? Squirrels.