My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not actually here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.
Wouldve definitely gave lil homie a plate. I could never turn a kid away who wants food. And I’d ask him if he wanted to learn to grill and if he did,I’d ask his parents if it’s cool if he comes by and helps the next time we grill. Grilling is fellowship. Grilling is community.
I had a guy, who is a Dad, once tell me he would rather not date a woman with a child because another man still has some say/control over his woman, because of their child together.
@immishonunique Been doing trail ride since i was 13 it was always family oriented no shootings no violence and no out siders since its became trendy it’s became more about money and also a trail ride and a yard party/western party are two totally different things