I do not play about having my child look up to par. That includes looking clean, moisturized, pockets tucked - all that! My kid is a representation of me and idc if I look busted, he won’t 😭 bet ya that!
Co-parenting with a healed woman means she’ll put that child’s peace first, even if you never once protected hers. She won’t be bitter, loud, or messy… just disciplined, detached, and focused. That’s growth.