I spent last night thinking about the best way to grow as a developer. This morning, it hit me.
My 5-Pillar Manifesto for Developer Growth:
1 Support My Community
2 Own My Growth
3 Act with Purpose
4 Solve with Clarity
5 Lead Through Action
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the old model:
you lead, she follows. if she does not follow, you try harder by convincing & persuading.
you compromise until your spine is rubber and your boundaries are a suggestion.
the new model:
there are no rules, everything is negotiation and her autonomy is absolute.
your frustration? that's your problem.
the model you should be on:
no begging to be respected. you observe whether your girl respects you and you act accordingly.