You dont need pastor or church or child dedication for your child. I see all that as bullshit. Your child was created in the image of God already so only if you dont know your bible or understand what you practice that is when you will be concerned about that nonsense.
I just learnt that most churches won’t do baby dedication if they parents aren’t married and I wonder, should they dedicate their baby to Satan because they’re not married?
I think the church has an institution has lost sight of why the church was created.