The way they set it up definitely sounds like an innocent story. However if he felt violated I do believe he did not lay out the facts correctly and let them know of his emotional distress. I donโt think he handled the situation correctly at all.
Your partner is supposed to make you feel like you the rawest person on earth.
Top tier. Like there's no competition, no comparison. Place you on a pedestal.
Make you feel secure.
my level of detachment will have you thinking i never gave a fck. But it's just when i'm done with it, I'm actually done. That's it. I know when things no longer serve its purpose or never did.