It’s almost 5am in the morning and I’m struggling with grief. This year I lost my aunt, best friend and the loml in a space of 3 months and it randomly hits sometimes like today. Eyyy kodwa ibuhlungu nyani intando ka Thixo sarna 😭💔
YES! Anything you worked hard for is a win!!! Be it permanent or temporary!! You worked hard to qualify, you work hard to raise that deposit, you worked hard to be credit worthy, you worked hard to live soft!!! Everything you worked for that makes you happy is a WIN!!
I saw a video that said having a naturally intimidating aura is exhausting because people start competing with you for no reason while you're literally just breathing. l've never felt so seen.!!🥹
for anything that isn’t for me to not find me and for things that are for me to locate me. if anything that isn’t mine does find me, may it not cause me any harm when i release it and may i have enough room to accept what’s mine without doubt or anxiety.
Luckily for me, I have met the perfect man who sees me even on my worst days. “I saw you weren’t okay hence I didn’t push”, “I saw you weren’t feeling well so I got you these” . Ohw God knew exactly what he was doing when he led me to this man. Forever thankful man 🥹
One of the hardest things about being in a serious relationship with someone who’s feelings you consider is not being able to shut down. Before you even think about switching off your phone on your worst days, you have to consider that there’s another party waiting on your text.
I can’t just ghost people, put my phone on flight mode or sleep the entire day bc I have to make sure my man doesn’t feel some type of way and that has been the hardest thing ever bc I am so used to being quiet when things go south.
We want relationships that lead to marriage but are we ready for all that comes with them? Are we ready to put our feelings aside for the other person? To consider someone else before yourself? It’s not only men who have to do these things, we as women have to and WOW! What a wow
I have always wanted a genuine and authentic relationship and now that I have it, I am struggling with so many things bc I’m so used to doing everything myself and solving every problem but this man makes it so easy for me to lean on him and I’ll forever be grateful to God.
I now have to share what’s bothering me even when I don’t feel like talking bc I don’t want him to think that he did something wrong when he didn’t. I don’t want him to question himself when I have bad days and feel disconnected to everything and everyone.