gue dulu juga mikirnya gini. but now i realize, sometimes orang ngejauh bukan sengaja mau nyakitin, tapi karna mereka ga bisa handle conflict, takut confrontation, emotionally overwhelmed, atau emang belom punya emotional maturity buat explain their feelings properly
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
Ternyata bener, banyak cowok yang tumbuh ngelihat ibunya kerja, ngurus rumah, ngurus anak, terus mikir kalo itu standar normal jadi istri.
Sedangkan cewe tumbuh ngelihat hal yang sama jadi sadar dan mikir “gue gamau hidup seberat itu”
And we wonder why birth rate is decreasing?
Be kind to others, guys. Jangan lupa kalau setiap kata yang kalian ketik, even if it feels small and harmless, bisa banget berdampak besar ke orang lain. Sometimes we type too fast, terlalu emosi, cuma ikut-ikutan aja, tanpa sadar itu bisa menyakiti someone who doesn’t deserve it